I asked the Divine for Healing and it gave me a goodbye.
Love should not feel like a battlefield. Life is already hard enough for you to fight another battle in search of love.
I thought love was about sacrifices and holding on, I was wrong.
In this blogpost, we will talk about how many( including me) have completely misunderstood what love and relationships are, and have forgotten the wonders a powerful love can create.
This is about transformation, not bitterness. Healing truly begins when we go inwards rather than outwards. All the answers lie within. Whether you find yourself staying at a place where you are not valued or respected, or why did you stay for however long that you did. Let’s dive within.
Changing patterns and understanding your own flaws and loopholes, ignites the transformation process. Blaming the person who hurt you perhaps might give you temporary relief but it will not heal what is broken inside and eventually the same pattern repeats itself until we decide to heal our wounds.
Healing truly begins when we start questioning ourselves and our choices. Our choice of holding on, our choice of not leaving a situation that keeps breaking us, our attachment styles, our self idea and self worth, our values and our core beliefs. All the answers lie within ; what made you believe that love is supposed to hurt? or what made you believe that over extending yourself to a limit where you lose yourself completely would fix the relationship?
Acceptance is the very first step towards healing. Rather than going outward and bashing the other person for hurting you like they did or blaming them, what you should do is go inwards and try to heal the parts of you that stayed despite knowing deep inside that its time to let go. Bashing, blaming or hating may give temporary relief or reassurance but the question will still remain.
Yes, no doubt, they might have their own flaws and their own set of baggage, but it is their own journey of self discovery and healing. That is not your road to travel. IT IS THEIRS.
At therishitathakurblog.com, we, take the road less traveled, that is inwards; towards our soul and its journey of healing and awakening. True strength lies in taking accountability. OF YOURSELF, FOR YOURSELF. Reaching the highest self is not far away if this path is chosen. Healing ourselves and living the highest potential of this human experience is the goal here. So, I would like to take a moment to welcome all my readers to their higher self.
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